You know, I can now understand why people get so bitter.

I'm trying not to be but it seems like this person keeps doing stuff that irritates the crap out of me.

How does one stop being bitter?

I wish I knew. However, if me being bitter makes me understand a character better. I can go through it... I think. The basics of how one becomes bitter is this, you make them feel worthless. As in, worthless as a person, BF/BG, or/and a friend. That person had a small self-esteem to begin with and you crush it. It doesn't matter if it was a misunderstanding. You can't tell a person how to feel or interpret something you say. You just can't.

They just feel like you tore them apart and ripped them to pieces.

I will not be bitter. I will not be bitter. PERIOD.